I enjoy BDSM for the same reason I do yoga - it encourages us to simply be here. In session, your phone is away and you have nothing to do - except exactly as I say. 

The outside world tells us to suppress our emotions, to believe we are stoic, numb and impenetrable. I prove that you are not, and I give you a safe place to unravel. I break you to protect you, and show you how it feels to reconnect with the truth. 

For those desiring discipline, structure and absolute authority, I have real world credentials that command any ego to sit down. I am authoritative, whip smart and unyielding, and draw on my military background to bring you into line and under my control. I exude quiet command without the need for theatrics or performance. 

I can be cruel, brutal and sadistic when needed. I see pain as the ultimate tool for catharsis, and relish opportunities to push masochists to the point of release - safely and with intention. We are so detached from our nervous systems, many of us need a shock to bring us back to ourselves.

I have the psychological strength to tap into the deepest, darkest corners of My mind to completely break yours. I am unafraid of extreme humiliation and degradation because I base it in trust and genuine intention.

I am a lesson in contrasts, and enjoy the beauty of service and worship just as much as the I do the devotion of suffering. I weave My background as a bodyworker into sessions, and I have a nurturing, earthly and grounding presence that provides the safety to explore both softness and intensity. I see both bodywork and BDSM sessions as nervous system co-regulation opportunities and an opportunity to hold space for you to completely surrender. I prioritise trust, boundaries and communication in all My work. My touch is embodied, and My sessions are a lesson in energy exchange and the power of the unspoken.

It is important to Me that people distinguish between fantasy and reality, and are supported to integrate after a session. I structure and price my offerings in specific ways to ensure we both receive the ability to negotiate, debrief and check-in with one another before, during and after the session. Before we engage in any activity, I will talk you through the known risks, any contraindications and aftercare required. I utilise the ‘traffic light’ system in session allowing us both to communicate our comfort without interrupting the flow of our play. I pride Myself on My ability to read body language, non-verbal cues and changes in communication and behaviour to make decisions in the moment. I am an intuitive and creative Dominant who thrives when submissives are genuine, vulnerable and fully engaged in the play.

I am very discerning in the sessions I will accept, and I am only interested in working with submissives - not playing out a client's fantasy. I do not do transactional interactions, and you will only get the best of me if you give me the best of you.

Let Me show you we are capable of.